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How To Turn a Man Off

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There are hundreds of articles advising on how to attract a man, or how to turn him on on, but very few detailing what exactly turns him off! During the research for WLTM: The Dating Game, the authors discovered that there were some surprising reasons why men didn’t come back for a second date. These were the top ten turn-offs …
1: 
Low cut or very revealing clothes, excessive tattooing and body-piercing, and cheap perfume. Simply put, for a large number of males, appearance really does count.
2: 
Women who give the impression that their wide circle of friends, dog/cat/horse, career, and a whole host of other interests come first. In other words, he’ll just have to take her as he finds her, or push off. No area of compromise.
3: 
Women who show more interest in a man’s life-style with a view to improving their own personal circumstances, rather than discussing mutual interests.
4: 
Poor table manners and flirting with the waiter.
5: 
Women who are aggressive and confrontational without any just cause.
6: 
A lack of humour and raucous laughter seem to rate about equal.
7: 
Talking about ex-lovers, partners or husbands.
8: 
Coarse language and/or conversation peppered with provocative words and statements. If gives the wrong impression the women only have themselves to blame if the chap tries his hand on the first day!
9: 
An obsession about pets is another area that men find off-putting. Dogs and cats that occupy bedrooms, chairs and sofas won’t be approved of by the majority of males. Mentioning that you enjoying dog walking is fine but a whole evening’s conversation devoted to a furry friend is definitely out!
10: 
The prospect of assuming responsibility for someone else’s children ... although single mums with toddlers seem to fare better than divorcees with teenagers still at home. Unless a man’s states openly that he likes children, don’t assume that he’ll be up for playing Happy Families and automatically think your kids are great.
Conclusion: 
There we have it … and it’s quite a list to think about. This appeared to be a general consensus of opinion from men from all different walks of life but on closer examination, there’s very little that women could really take exception to (see How To Turn A Girl Off). The authors also discovered that maturer men refuse to play mind games and are likely to be more honest about themselves than women of a similar age.
Tips: 
Conceal bitten fingernails
Keep off the onions or garlic
Be honest about yourself
Warnings: 
If he’s turned off, you’re not going to turn him on again.

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